In Defense of the @$$
I know a lot of netizens are angry and pissed at the guy. I don’t doubt he’s an @$$. Believe me, I already know. But he’s a product of the society that he lives in. The girl, too, is a product of the society she lives in. Now, I understand
exactly how bad the girl must have it for him. And so the cycle of DV is enacted again and again.
However, this latest debacle of getting pregnant and saying it’s his kid and the daddy telling her to have the kid get a DNA test, etc. I’m sorry, I’m really on his side.
First, I have to wonder why the eff she went to the media over a DV breakup which she didn’t press charges on. If you’re going to be dragged through the mud and raked over coals, you better be damned angry as eff.
And once you express it out in the media, there should be no going back.
Yeah, yeah, you love him, etc, etc. But exposing that and yourself to the media is basically a free fall. I wouldn’t have gone back to the bastard.
Otherwise, I would have pressed charges quietly. And if the media got a hold of it, good. If not, then it’s on him, yeah? And the chance we got back together wouldn’t be so…ugh…ugly.
He admitted to one incident of abuse. When they were together. Then they broke apart and that’s when she went to the police station and filed a complaint? I’m a little wary about things like these. See, the old adage of ‘Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned’ is very appropriate here. This makes women hella scary.
He’s an @$$. He admitted as much.
Then she got pregnant. And she again went to the media because the pregnancy came after they again had broken up. Then SHE won’t do a DNA test on the kid? If it was really KHJ’s kid, I would have all the authentic papers and such ready so there is no question he’s responsible. Why deny that? You’ve gone that far, what’s this one step left? And for her to refuse it, wow! I would say she has something to hide and good for KHJ that he does not bow to the pressure especially if it’s not his responsibility in the first place.
Because if I were in his shoes, I’d be asking that question. So go to an independent lab. Go to a reputable one. One that I can’t effing influence. I want one, too. A lab you, effing witch, and your effing lawyers can’t influence. That’s all!!!
What she’s doing is the oldest trick in the book. Holding on to him by using a kid. If I were her, I would say, “Eff you! Bastard! Kiss my goddamned ass!” Besides, she’s done the worst she could possibly do to the bastard! Labeled him as an abusive muddereffer!
I may not like what he did, but I’ll tell you now, I wouldn’t pay for the child either without a DNA test. Especially if I even have an inkling that the child could possibly have been created while you and I were apart.
I wouldn’t have said nothing about this at all, either, because I am not one of his fans. And despite him being friends with Kim Jaejoong, I never liked him. But the girl, seriously… Get over it, girl! Either submit a DNA test already and end this stupid posturing because your stance keeps him in the limelight. And he just really needs to like… Fade away…
So, ever since Beautiful Liar landed on my lap… Er… Tablet… Jung Leo and Kim Ravi had been at my fingertips.
VIXX is an addicting group to follow. Yes, I admit, I was drawn to Leo’s vocals and Ravi’s deep voice, but the boys are such fun to watch!!! VIXX TV, Plan V, One Fine Day… They’re…well…kids… Cute, handsome, worrisome, funny kids… Boys… LOL! In a big way. Then I started listening to their songs. Maybe that was a bad idea. Even more when I watched their videos. 😕 The problem isn’t that they’re bad… Nope, not at all. They become…ear worms. You just gotta listen.
This is addicting. Cutesy image and all, but damn catchy. Makes me want to do that dance they have. LOL!!!
They were younger than now. Little boys still. Hah!
Then last year they came out with the latest ear worm in my pod. Voodoo Doll.
The video is dark. The concept dark.. The dance…. Holy cow!!! Ravi crawls out from the ground then seems to pick up Ken by some invisible rope and throws him over his head and Ken somehow lands on his feet! And they do this in the live stages as well! OMG! Not only do I like… I also got my Halloween costume idea for next year!!!!
Yes , the cane… Yes the jacket… Their next offering was Error, with a cyborg kind of theme.
It’s not as much an earworm as Voodoo Doll, yet. It’s getting there. The songs they sing, though… My effing gawd!!!
Anyway, I’m blown away by these fresh men. They’re neophytes. Formed in 2012, I believe. Their company/agency’s first idol group. I think their seniors are known for singing ballads more. They were formed in a survival style program called MyDol – a mash up of the words “My Idol”.
You can get to know them through YouTube videos.
And if you’re looking for something new, give these guys a whirl. I don’t think they’ll disappoint.
PS… None of the photos are mine. So, credit to internet uploads and such. Not in South Korea… Not in Japan. So…. Just to let you know.
I wish that I could live my life
Beneath the wishing tree
Where I could wish a peaceful life
For the likes of you and me…
If there was such a place…
I would my abode replace
And hie myself ‘neath that green delight
And spend endless days and nights
Wishing for your gaze
To fall on me…
Alas, I see no greenery
That would make my wishes true
No patterned leaves of greenish hue
Or somesuch foolery
If wishes were so granted then
I would wish for you
But life has granted nothing here
Except the tracks of a lonely tear…
RhB… LOL! 20151009 0402P